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cosmicredcadet · 1 year ago

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People who identify as Aspec because of trauma are still Aspec. People who identify as Aspec because of Dysphoria are still Aspec People who realized later on they weren't Aspec where are any less Aspec when they were identifying as it. The point is that at some point they related to and felt understood under an Aspec identity and that's all you need to be Aspec. If it changes later on then that's just how it is, it doesn't make them a faker or poser. It makes them a human being who is constantly growing and understanding more about themselves. We should be supporting these people not treating them as the enemy. If they change their minds then that's okay!

So many of us Aspec people used to think we were allo before realizing we weren't so why are we attacking others for having the same experience just with different identities?

#text #aro #ace #aroace #aspec #aromantic #asexual #this also includes people who don't change their labels at all who are aspec from trauma and dysphoria too #but the post mostly is targetting those who push the idea that these people will change their mind later #or they can be fixed from it and thus shouldn't identify as aspec #you all deserve respect and you are not our enemy #you are part of our community and we should be supporting you through your journey of self discovery #this includes other aspec identities too but I mostly see this argument used against people saying they are aro or ace #but im sure people who experienced trauma and dyphoria have also identified under other a-attractions as well due to it

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